Sunday, May 29, 1927

Sunday, May 29, 1927
Fair

All went to Sunday school and Albert stayed to church with me. Spent the afternoon lying down reading. Felt awfully blue all the good things – except children – seem to pass me by and nobody cares.

(I've published all the diary entries without edits, but nearly edited this one. I'm sure we can't begin to imagine the hard work and long days Grandma spent caring for five children and a husband. Laundry and ironing seemed to be going on constantly. They didn't have closets full of clothes, so I'd guess the clothes they did have were worn several times between washings, and wore out quickly. That explains all the darning and sewing she did, of everything... stockings, underwear, pants, shirts. With four active boys, I'm sure the darning was non-stop.

They didn't eat out either, except for Thursday suppers at the church and maybe an occasional Sunday dinner at Grandma's parent's house. So every day, food had to be prepared. Certainly, they were not destitute but neither did they seem to have a lot of extra money, so she probably had to budget and carefully plan her purchases.

My oldest cousin once commented how intelligent Grandma was and that it was a shame she didn't finish college. I'm sure there were things she wanted to do, but couldn't and didn't even let herself dream of doing because it took all her energies and time to keep the household running.

We have the advantage of looking back and seeing what happens, of knowing that in ten years time, Grandma would be a widow with six children. We can also look back and see that all her children were successful in their own way. Three of four sons served in the military in WWII and came back to tell of it, all four boys earned advanced degrees and were successful, Dale as a businessman, Dick, Albert, and Ned as college professors. That her her two daughters would marry and have their own children.

But in 1927, clearly, it was a difficult time.)